Reflection for the week

It’s been extra hard for me to get out of bed this week. This week had its challenges especially with parenting I tried to become more consistent in my “threats” and to not be too permissive as I can let things slide. I had to make a conscience effort and this was mentally tiring and I was ashamed what I let the Kids get away with. Nagging – I hate nagging, (or shall I say anything for peace and quiet) it works better than the puppy dog face.

I have aloud the kids to feel their un forgiveness towards their siblings. (I can force you to forgive), but I wanted forgiveness to come from themselves. My daughter has learned to apologize out of her own without me pushing her. I don’t think she liked the feeling of fighting with her brother.

Brother, though the most sensitive can be manipulative (he is good with reading mommy), I thank God that I picked up on that behaviour – it seems that he needs me to be more consistent.

Little girl – I have listened from her point of view how she felt on why she is “in Paris” embarrassed. I can understand but I think she has a little peer pressure.

And I played along with my son’s stupid came this morning – my son thinks he is funny. His favourite word chicken, this is funny, so when his sister heard he has a girl friend (just a friend) and she teased him. She said “they talking about chickens mommy” that was hilarious. Of course he got furious, it’s amazing the ones that likes to tease, don’t like it when they are teased,

And, I did not concentrate too much on the house work this week. I hope our domestic help is coming, we have three messy’s in the house and it is not my husband.

I have also started another blog www.wildflowerursosweet.blogspot.com you will have to see if you like.